Attitude, Attitude, Attitude

This is the first time I have done a blog so please bear with me. I am 66 years old and a C6 quadriplegic and have been for almost 11 years. I can only speak from my own personal experiences, sharing what I have learned and what I believe to be important.

Attitude, Attitude, Attitude I have become convinced over the last ten years that attitude is much more important to individuals who are physically challenged than ability. To look on a new situation not as a problem but as a challenge needing to be met, may actually set one’s mind free of the mental restraints which prevent one from finding a solution.

Attitude towards the future will play a great role in how one adapts to any new lifestyle. I am sure there are many people who would look at me confined to a wheelchair and think that it is probably one of the worst things that could happen to anyone. It doesn’t matter what other people think, what is important is what I think. I had little control over what happened to me but I have almost complete control over how I deal with my situation, and feeling in control is critical to progress and recovery. What I believe and how I handle the results of my accident will determine how I live and enjoy the rest of my life. I have good days and bad days but ultimately the control of my situation and attitude rests within me.

I know I have the ability to cope with what has happened to me, and I can decide how I will handle this and subsequent challenges I will face. The strength to deal positively with any challenge is in every one of us. I do not see myself as a person with a disability I see myself as being challenged. Christopher Reeve said “I refuse to allow a disability to determine how I will live my life. I don’t mean to be reckless, but setting a goal that seems a bit daunting actually is very helpful toward recovery.”

2 responses to “Attitude, Attitude, Attitude

  1. AS always I’m so proud of you, so many people are benefiting from your work. I especially like the poem. Talk to you soon.
    Mary

  2. you are an amazing man which i have know for a very long time! 🙂

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